WonderfulCollection

Please look at the picture of Laughing Buddha. I had read s story about him. It is about Hotei, or Pu Tai. He was a Chinese monk lived about 1000 years back. He used to carry a very big smile on his face, It is said that daily he moved on the streets of San Francisco, carrying a big bag. He used to approach shop keepers and bag for sweets . Then he was distributing sweets among children. If any person asked him the secret of his happiness, he immediately leave the place, walk away, without speaking a word. Hotei was not trying to think positive. Rather, he was not looking at the negative side of life. Children are fresh, energetic , free from day to day tension, worry. While mixing with them, it had given much impact on Hotei. That had made him to be free from dark side of life. It all depends on the environment one lives with. I will suggest you to put his picture on your living room. Then, you need not try to be positive. Let the environment takes care of you. Let the l...

The word “selfish” often sparks negative feeling. It sounds resembling to words like self-centered, self-serving, self-involved. And it gives us a feeling of meanness like “me and my interests,” right? We are always taught ,”giving is preferential to taking? There is one area where we actually need to be Selfish. As when we travel in an aircraft, we’re told we need to adjust our own oxygen mask first before helping others in a plane emergency. if anything is against my well being emotionally and physically, then saying no is not being selfish . Mostly the women in India ignore their health at the cost of their families well being. Is it a good idea. Ofcourse not. A healthy mother of a wife can contribute better to the well being of families instead of the one who just keeps ignoring herself to earn the tag of selflessness. Hope it’s clear that it’s okay to be selfish when your well being is at stake. Otherwise it’s great to be selfless and think of others . I want to share a st...